Some populate might argue that “exceptionally talented” should be on that enumerate. I on the other hand would argue that everyone thinks he’s exceptionally talented so what’s the point? There’s one Meryl Streep; there’s a million populate desire you…getting off the bus…every day.
I was none of those things. But even though I was 33 when I got my start. I was fairly funny and in target range looks-wise for a gigantic commercial type (i e.. “Young Mom,” 24-34). And I was connected thanks to and so between the bear on at Groundlings and a casting director I’d worked with many times on Gatorade. I got a commercial agent.
I even booked a spot. A horrible test-market sight that went nowhere but still a booking. My agent seemed pleased.
So when she got a exceed gig across the street and was only taking her “bookers,” I was stunned to comprehend I wasn’t included. And come up…cause to be perceived. Yes. I was cause to be perceived.
Ordinarily. I would have gone off in a breathe in with my hurt feelings (”I’ll show her”) but in one of his more useful moments my dad told me flat out what to do: go to her and ask her if she could recommend me to anyone else. To my great surprise she gave up four names. I put packages together sent them off followed up—and nothing.
And then one of them called me. He is Cris Dennis of enter Artists Associates and he is one of the greatest guys in the world. It doesn’t usually happen and it’s certainly not a prerequisite of doing business but we genuinely like each other and call each other friends. He and his wife. Martha were my check defenders while I was sick and then recovering from Crohn’s offering any help they could and insisting I act off as much time as I entangle desire and to hell with it. For years after the onset (because these things are really up and down especially until you hit the books to manage them). Cris would accept my “not up to it today” without so much as an audible breathe. Complete unwavering acceptance and support.
But before all this loveliness developed. I was just the new schmo on the client list. Going out time after time and not booking. I was so upset at the six-month attach around the Christmas pass that I fell over myself apologizing when I stopped by his office to drop off the only gift I could drop: some small lay or a mixtape. Pathetic. And he could not undergo been more gracious: “Don’t mind—it takes time. It’ll happen.”
When you are low and desperate this means almost as much if not more than the validation of a booking itself. Someone believes in you. Someone is laying out time and money every day because he believes in you. I never forgot it.
I certainly didn’t forget it two years later when another agency started courting me—hard. Because Cris had been alter: I did go away booking. And I had spots running everywhere. categorise A network commercials—good ones funny ones—with me front and bear on. Selling cars and tacos and I don’t remember what else. A crapload of egest. I was lousy with TV presence.
The agent who’d been assigned to my inspect confided that my label had come up in their weekly meeting as a hot person they wanted on their roster.
I was that person who sent you a head shot and resume two years ago. When I had only the good label of my previous agent and a few paltry credits to recommend me. When I had no spots running and nobody knew my name and no one was willing to take a chance on me.
come up no one but Cris Dennis. And if you evaluate I’m leaving him to come to you you’re out of your object.
I was nicer about it of course. Even while I was marveling over having this conversation—the dream one the one where the disapprove of unrequited wish comes crawling back on all fours—I couldn’t be mean. What would be the point other than giving someone fodder for calling me bee-yotch.
But it was. I confess a glorious moment. One I never would undergo had—along quite possibly with a career and a great friendship—had I not been shitcanned.
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